Personal Quote:
If there is no peace in your heart, move on.
About Me:
Mom, writer, editor, business owner, PTA member (I'm doing stuff. It counts.), Brownie mom, Boy Scout mom, tired.
Personal Goals:
I'm 41. Time to start making some headway.
Favorite Music:
R&B, Hip Gospel
Favorite Movies:
Date Night, The Breakfast Club, Love Actually - I love movies in general. Takes a lot to be a fav, though.
Favorite TV Shows
It is official. I am IN LOVE with Supernatural as I've never been with any other show, though I do crave The Walking Dead, American Horror Story, and similar genre.
Favorite Books:
Let's make it favorite authors instead: Tananarive Due and Stephen King.
Vices:
Come on. I'm supposed to tell you that? OK, I'll admit one - Pepsi.
Virtues:
Faithful, loyal, brave, reverent, clean - what's the rest of that Cub Scout spiel?
I am the spouse of a person with type 2 - his mother, one brother, aunt, uncle and grandmother all have and had type 2. My job? To help make sure our son and daughter are diabetes free. As a Senior Editor at dLife, I am also here to help the dLife community however I can as they manage their diabetes.
Hey there hbitner - Can you tell me where you saw that? I've been with dLife for almost 8 years and I know that that very statement is a prejudicial one that we have always sought to downplay while talking about the varying factors that contribute to type 2. I can see that statement being a quiz question, but not a blanket fact. If you can tell me where you saw it, I can see what the deal is. Thanks!
Thanks for sharing your perspective. It's really interesting to read this because it is something that I wonder about as someone who does not have a child with diabetes. And because of this, you just gave me a new article idea for dLife.com! :-) I know the community is a large one for parents of children with diabetes. I hope that will give you what you need to press on.
I know its not easy. But thank god for my husband he really helps me to get through it. It really helps to have someone to talk to. He knows about this his mother had it .
Hi Tina, You must be doing something right to have managed type 1 for over forty-four years!! GREAT JOB. Just take one step at a time. We only need a flashlight to shine on the next step which we are going to take. The important fact is that you are moving. May you be blessed with a warm wind behine your back, sunny days days ahead and best of success. As always have a great day. PS Give some thougth to the transfer of your medical records prior to moving away. As always have a...
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You must be doing something right to have managed type 1 for over forty-four years!! GREAT JOB. Just take one step at a time. We only need a flashlight to shine on the next step which we are going to take. The important fact is that you are moving. May you be blessed with a warm wind behine your back, sunny days days ahead and best of success. As always have a great day.
PS Give some thougth to the transfer of your medical records prior to moving away. As always have a great day.
Dan
Thanks for your kind words! Yes, 44 years of Type 1 and so far, minimal complications! My husband and I are in the medical field and have connections to find the care we need. Stress with home for sale, but at least we are all set with awesome new jobs!!
Thanks for sharing, Kelvin! dLifers had a week of living as "people with diabetes" and for those of use without it, we saw just how diligent you have to be and - for some of us - how difficult it can be to be diligent. :-) We commend you for doing what you need to to take care of yourself because too many people don't for various reasons and that's when so many issues can set in - whether they have diabetes or not! I hope you continue to be well and get to go on lots of those special trips with...
View full commentThanks for sharing, Kelvin! dLifers had a week of living as "people with diabetes" and for those of use without it, we saw just how diligent you have to be and - for some of us - how difficult it can be to be diligent. :-) We commend you for doing what you need to to take care of yourself because too many people don't for various reasons and that's when so many issues can set in - whether they have diabetes or not! I hope you continue to be well and get to go on lots of those special trips with your friends. :-D
It's ok, Sally. We know you aren't a spammer. :-) It's also nice to hear what people are doing that is actually working for them. Very glad you are doing well on these treatments. When you feel healthy, you feel happy and that goes a long way.
funny, I got a email saying there was a new comment on 5/18 but dont see any. I tried to come here that day but had to give up because of all the log in troubles.
LC It was good to read your post. Life does take turns and am glad that you are moving forward to make the most of the opportunities before you. As alwasy have a great day. Dan
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It was good to read your post. Life does take turns and am glad that you are moving forward to make the most of the opportunities before you. As alwasy have a great day.
Dan
Thanks, I'm sure the biggest piece of my reason for putting things off is money. When people ask what I would do if I was to win the lotto, it's never retire or rest...it's volunteer. And we know we have to do things according to God's plan, so if the plan is not for me to be rich monetarily -I'm fine with that. But the opportunity to fulfill my heart's desire...loving it. I know that I'll have a lot of studying to do, but it will be okay -it's a subject very close to my heart....
I'm sure the biggest piece of my reason for putting things off is money. When people ask what I would do if I was to win the lotto, it's never retire or rest...it's volunteer. And we know we have to do things according to God's plan, so if the plan is not for me to be rich monetarily -I'm fine with that.
But the opportunity to fulfill my heart's desire...loving it. I know that I'll have a lot of studying to do, but it will be okay -it's a subject very close to my heart. Thanks so much for the encouragement, I'll be sure to keep you posted on my progress.
Ron, my heart goes out to you. You don't know how many people are sharing your feelings of the loss of not one but both legs. All I can say is you will be in my prayers for acceptance of this tragic complication of diabetes. Keep the faith and may God be with you my Brother.
Ron, What a remarkable story of bravery and inspiration. Your attitude toward life, after what you have been through, is very inspiring and motivating. I am a type 1 diabetic as a result of having my pancreas removed 2 years ago. As a result of having no pancreas, I also have to take enzymes with every meal to digest my food. I often feel down and have that "poor me" feeling. After reading your post, I feel very lucky not to have lost more. You will never know how much you have...
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What a remarkable story of bravery and inspiration. Your attitude toward life, after what you have been through, is very inspiring and motivating. I am a type 1 diabetic as a result of having my pancreas removed 2 years ago. As a result of having no pancreas, I also have to take enzymes with every meal to digest my food. I often feel down and have that "poor me" feeling. After reading your post, I feel very lucky not to have lost more. You will never know how much you have motivated me to make the most of what I have. Best of luck to you .
Hi Vicki, I do know how you feel. I'm doing the same thing. I know I need to lose a bunch of weight and take control of my blood sugar, but I fight with it every day. I'll go crazy with carbs and sweets and then end up having to take an extra shot of lantus. I feel guilty for doing it, but it doesn't seem to make me change my ways. As you can see; I don't use a photo of myself either. I wish you good luck with this struggle. Maybe we can be support for each other. Hope your weekend goes well....
View full commentHi Vicki, I do know how you feel. I'm doing the same thing. I know I need to lose a bunch of weight and take control of my blood sugar, but I fight with it every day. I'll go crazy with carbs and sweets and then end up having to take an extra shot of lantus. I feel guilty for doing it, but it doesn't seem to make me change my ways. As you can see; I don't use a photo of myself either. I wish you good luck with this struggle. Maybe we can be support for each other. Hope your weekend goes well. Deb
Welcome Vicki! We're happy you chose to join us and we'd love to see your smiling face if you'll allow it. There is a ton to see here so jump around and keep on talking! We're listening!
Lol, Norm! I had plenty of dogs growing up, which is why I refuse to be a dogowner now. I feel your pain! It's funny. When you name your dog, you should think about it like you're naming your kid. Is it going to embarrass anyone at any time? Then rethink it! Glad you got your dog AND the unexpected workout. ;-)
Wow! What an inspirational post. Mind over matter is what I always say and you definitely have proven that. Good luck to you! I know that you will reach your goal.
Lol. Oh, that list can just go on and on... the things that we think about ALL THE TIME. It IS tiring! As I told Erin, it really warms my heart to know you all are doing this experiment. We diabetics understand what a huge effort this is for you all to make... and now you are getting a flavor for what it is like for us. It really touches me to think you would go to such ends to understand. Good luck. And oh... those Arizona Iced Teas... some things we discover we just can't accomodate anymore....
View full commentLol. Oh, that list can just go on and on... the things that we think about ALL THE TIME. It IS tiring! As I told Erin, it really warms my heart to know you all are doing this experiment. We diabetics understand what a huge effort this is for you all to make... and now you are getting a flavor for what it is like for us. It really touches me to think you would go to such ends to understand. Good luck. And oh... those Arizona Iced Teas... some things we discover we just can't accomodate anymore. :-
Great post Monica! There were so many things that I can speak on. 1. Arizona tea -when I was beginning this journey and my insulin pump -I gave myself insulin to cover that can and dropped really low. I learned quickly how liquid carbs may not necessarily stick with the body in terms of insulin (calories different story). 2. I have taken advantage of getting meters for free or via coupons. I have a meter at work, meter at home, meter on me at all times. Yes, I rotate test strips...
1. Arizona tea -when I was beginning this journey and my insulin pump -I gave myself insulin to cover that can and dropped really low. I learned quickly how liquid carbs may not necessarily stick with the body in terms of insulin (calories different story).
2. I have taken advantage of getting meters for free or via coupons. I have a meter at work, meter at home, meter on me at all times. Yes, I rotate test strips just to make sure none get old. -hey, I'm on the expensive one touch. ;)
3.Schedule???? Dinner and anything else lol.
4.Low in the morning? Or any bedtime...keep a juice or glucose tabs on the night stand -something should always be within reach. I've come across a few people that keep mini refrigerators in the bedroom.
5.No insurance makes me cry. I have met people with Diabetes and no insurance, I just can't imagine their lives. I have a flexible spending account that I usually diminish by August and end up with bill collector calls. :( Diabetes is ROUGH. It's been almost 4 years and I still haven't mastered how to manage the financial piece of it because something always comes up.
I know there's more that I could write, but I am kind of rushed. I am really glad that this forum is here -interesting to read and give feedback.
I love your post, monica! Yep... I had to get a bigger bag too, when I started taking insulin. Have to carry not only my test kit but insulin (in case I'm eating away from home) AND snacks in case I become hypoglycemic! I learned that lesson right quick when I had an episode at my endocrinologists office and couldn't find a coke machine anywhere in the building!!! I didn't think such places exist anymore... public buildings without coke machines or vending machines. lol. Fortunatly for another...
View full commentI love your post, monica! Yep... I had to get a bigger bag too, when I started taking insulin. Have to carry not only my test kit but insulin (in case I'm eating away from home) AND snacks in case I become hypoglycemic! I learned that lesson right quick when I had an episode at my endocrinologists office and couldn't find a coke machine anywhere in the building!!! I didn't think such places exist anymore... public buildings without coke machines or vending machines. lol. Fortunatly for another kind soul in the dr's office who gave me her own snack "kit". lol. I also hate living by the clock! And planning ahead! It's a real struggle for me. Good luck. And thanks for walking in our shoes for a while... really means a lot to this one.
Sometimes I feel like such a scatter brain because I think I can get away with carrying the cute small purse. LOL -that was pre-diabetes days. Now when I try that, I find myself carrying the small bag, then the testing meter bag, oh I forgot my snack bag...it just turns into a wonderful mess. Wishing well this week and I'm going to have to check out that Arby's salad. :)
Lorraine
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